Uv. parents! Put your child. I want to look into his eyes. The whole lesson played on the computer brought from home. And I did not give me! Absolutely does not know Pushkin! Dear Parents! Please introduce! Hey there! Hello! What about breakfast money? Bring 100 rubles to a bribe head. Gorono. Dear Parents! Please come to school sober. Your son turned out to be a daughter. Pay attention to it. Has lesson chemistry lived life. He played a lesson in the card. He knows how to count the wists. Your child missed Saturday Disco! Observe! Mathematics - 1 Chemistry - 1 Russian language - 1 Geography - 1 Total: 4 (good) Life of the hotel in the lesson of the Law of God is preparing Velmi. He pulled the nucleus from paper to tough tough pipe Plastics, through which the deque was crossed and blind. I drove the demon from the class. Please produce the conience of Sukina Son on the back of a twig, to deprive meals and movies, Ali beat the man about the wall! Kuril incense in the toilet. Smoked in kartzer. pay attention to appearance Your son. Pants are forever smoothed, hairstyle neatly, nails are trimmed. Where does it come from?! Smoked in the teacher. Washed the floor in the classroom shawl waking. Your son saw decimal logarithms in the coffin. Pay attention to the appearance of the daughter. Black with green no longer worn, it is necessary to lower the line of the waist! Disable the daughter to enroll the sleeve! Brought vodka, threw the pedsove. Thought with bananas at the geography lesson. Tov. Parents, your son jumped out the window after his bull, thrown into a classmate. Please take action, namely to tie his bulls to the hands of thread! Ranked at the lesson of physical education! Beat teachers to half dead! TOV.Roders, your son makes strange sounds with a smell in mathematics lesson. In the diary of the seventh grader: came to school without shifting and drunk! During the lesson, Eidelman was discovered at the lesson of the nermen! A cactus and cloth thrown on the change! Talked in Russian! A classmate has a brush for sweeping the workbench, take action. Tried to break the vice! Tumble without a mat. Parents, take action! Amentil in classmate lesson. Brutal tormented comrade! Hit the comrade briefcase on the head. Tov. parents! Your son has a heavy portfolio, follow the lack of extra books! Perfers to lead a lesson with his own opinion. Drew the whole desk and neighbor boots. Rushed with raw materials in the ceiling. Shot a class to eat a collection of seeds in the Biology Cabinet! It does not listen to the lesson, it just will fall on the desk and lies. Parents, pay attention! The child is morally empty! Fought on the rules with the teacher! Allowed to bark on himself. Tov. parents! Teach your baby to jump through the goat! Your child is afraid of a goat more than me. Gym teacher. Holded in class. Lyricated Smirnov with a chair. Slap in an open window in the lesson of chemistry. Threw a chair from the window. Deliberately spoiled the air in the class. Buzzing in the lesson! Toms the team of comrade (on Physle Re) shows a combination of three fingers (on Physing) chasing the boys along the corridor with mop! Two for behavior. Hit the boy on the head with two constructors. Located a race in the class. Dasha and Oksana drew cards and played them. Take measures! Did not appear on the dictation, ride on the hill! Broke the plug in the dining room. Singing without a form in the dressing room in girls. In the lesson, the mathematics pushed the neighbor's passage by the desk. Lasiled over chairs with boys in the lesson of rhythm. Grunts in the lesson. Have fun in the lesson. Requires to buy her samopisk handle! Broke the plafof the boots. Falling a pot with a flower on the width. Head. Runly with a classmate in the women's toilet! Fitting on the lessons - sits in the toilet! Went outside through the window. Does not know where left leg. Ha is humanly sitting on a chair. Scared kids chewing meat. The whole lesson did not get out of the portfolio. Alimped in a drawing of a friend. Sits on sofas. Sings in the lessons, motivating what he wants to become an opera singer. I spoke (about 55 comments in one diary for the 4th grade) does not show the teacher to the notebook for cleaning! Scheduled for parents in the diary! Talking loudly and pushes children. Played at the lesson with a magnifying glass! Came to the physical education lesson without panties. At the lesson, Botany ate a visual allowance. Tov. Parents, let's money child for breakfast! He wrote off at the dude. Doubtably looks at the board. I snatched together with the teacher. Posted on the desk an obscene word in honor of classmates. Dung for the braids of primary school students.
Absolutely does not know Pushkin! Dear Parents! Please introduce!
Run in the toilet!
Running at the lesson of physical education!
Run for boys on school with a stick.
Without permission, the teacher hanged himself on the bars.
Protected on labor. Broke vice. I brought to tears tears.
I threw a 100 dollars to the teacher's feet than I put it in an uncomfortable position.
Vasily at every lesson undresses me with his eyes as an experienced man without shame and conscience.
Your child is afraid of a goat more than me. Gym teacher.
Your child missed Saturday Disco! Observe!
Your son saw decimal logarithms in the coffin.
Your son inflated rubber products for adults in physics. I made him a remark. And he advised me vulgarly not to build a sexual backward girl.
Your daughter began to get involved in a look at the boys, but also on male teachers.
The whole lesson played on a computer brought from home. And I did not give me!
The whole lesson fucked a neighbor on the desk, not paying attention to the teacher.
Falls in love with all the girls - I ask you to figure it out, finally.
During the lesson, Eidelman was discovered at the lesson of nerds at your daughter!
Holded in class.
Alimped in a drawing of a friend.
Doubtably looks at the board.
Departed for the braids of primary school students.
Trained cockroaches in the lesson of mathematics. Could wait for biology!
He lived his life in the lesson of biology.
Forgot to bring feces analysis.
He played on the nerves, and falsely.
As the class teacher Sergey, I need to meet with you at any time convenient for you, and specifically December 6 at 16:30.
Smoked in the teacher.
I smoked at physical culture, ran to change, and it is necessary - on the contrary!
On the change, Maxim swore so selected mat that even I was covered with shame all over the body.
Putting a gas mask to other parts of the body.
Wears brick in the portfolio. Why - does not say.
Slot the girl with saliva. Please take action now.
Pay attention to the appearance of your son. Pants are forever smoothed, combed neatly, nails are trimmed. Where does it come from?!
I snatched together with the teacher.
Before entering the office to the temptation, knocked on the door with the conditional chamber of the Fizruka.
Washed the floor in the classroom shawl waking.
Try to teach your son to respect the woman in me, otherwise he's badly cums.
Turned a trip to the circus in Balagan!
Came to school Lysis. Please take action.
Came to school without shifting and drunk!
Receipt. I, Strigin Arkady, the student of the 2nd class A, I undertake to comply with the security technique, that is, not run at school, as the school is in disserval. Strigin. Parents are familiar with: .......
Talked in the lesson of singing, kept the teacher that it was rap.
Talling the lesson of algebra, putting his feet in the passage.
He wrote off at the dude.
Tov. parents! Teach your child jumping through the goat!
Uv. parents! Put your child. I want to look into his eyes.
U.R. Give the child to sleep. He sleeps in the lessons!
I want to warn you as a teacher, like a woman and, in the end, like a mother, that behind your daughter needs an eye yes, in the field of lubricacy of her nature.
Appeared on a lesson without panties. (Record in the diary of the physical education teacher)
In the formation of positive students' motivation important has a diary.
What does diary mean for a student? This is his social passport. This is the plan of his life, this is a list of its achievements and failures, failures. But often he becomes exactly the promotion list. He becomes a list reminiscent of failures instead of a list of reminders about the strengths of his personality, which a student could use further.
Nevertheless, the diary is very significant for the student. It is for this reason that he is hiding when the teacher intends to write a remark there.
Two basic principles:
1. Enlarge the number of positive motivating records in the diary
2. Transform and reduce the number of negatively motivating records in the diary.
Folded to the positive motivation of the diary record - these are records containing
a) unconditional recognition of the student's personality
b) records containing the conditional recognition of the student. This is a recognition given to the student for a well-done job.
The most difficult may be an expression of unconditional recognition, adoption of a student, as the school is focused primarily on successful activities. However, it is possible. Unconditional recognition is expressed primarily through the valid form of treatment. Unconditional recognition can be expressed through the appeal by the name (to the disciple), by name and patronymic (to parents), through written congratulations with the national holidays - a record in the diary from the class teacher, from the School Director. (Remember: Suvorov A. knew every single soldier by name). It may also be a farewell and wishes of the class teacher to spend the holidays - at the end of the quarter, half of the year.
The so-called "conditional" recognition should be expressed for success in educational, in extracurricular activities, for personal achievements. It may also be not only a mark, but also praise,
For example, for attentive work in the lesson, for an excellent answer at the board. There are important comments on the estimates that clarify the nature of the work done by the student of work, containing recognition of success, clarify the opportunity to correct the bad mark. It may also be gratitude, for example: for helping the teacher at the lesson, for participating in extracurricular affairs, for duty at school, in class, thanks for the message at the lesson, for the help provided by a classmate.
It can be said that the record in the diary is a special form of pedagogical work with students, as, as they say, "what a pen is written, they will not cut down with an ax."
The diary is not a notebook from which you can pull out and throw away the unsuccessful page. Does not this reason for the disciples so often lose their diaries? Losing at the same time, a part of your life, about which you want to forget to forget, and those that did not lose them during the school year, with a huge relief of the hearts, at the end of the year, throw a diary into a trash can in order to forget quickly about the huge red twos, the appeals to the parent and the student conscience, about their resentment on teachers, about the feeling of helplessness before the circumstances and adults, on which they are unable to influence .... To forget at least for the summer ..
Whether the time will come when the diaries will begin to carefully persist as a memory of personal successes, noble affairs, classroom and school events, about the nobility and help of teachers, about the knowledge gained in favorite subjects, and about the student's new student in an interesting, adult life? And it would be good to come.
So let's give our students gratitude, appreciation, love, admiration, respect, social recognition of success, the importance of the results achieved, self-confidence and in the future, self-confidence.
Let the school life be such that it was not necessary to be afraid of the wrong answer, ridicule of classmates, the irony of teachers, public criticism, silent (or not silent) of parents.
I offer 10 specific methods to establish positive contact, influence the behavior of the student, to invite parents to cooperate in the child's education. The description of these 10 and methods can be used as an instruction when working with a student diary.
10 methods allowing to establish contact and strengthen the success of the student
1. Method of establishing contact. The record in the diary begins with the appeal by the name to the student, by name and patronymic - to the parents of the student (instead of: "Dear Parents ..." or: "Fill in the diary!").
2. The method of positive reformulation positive reformulation of negative behavior into positive qualities. (Instead: "It came up on a change!" - "Your son knows how to stand up for yourself. We hope that next time he will make it a safe way.")
3. Method of direct query. A description of what the student's behavior is desirable, instead of describing undesirable behavior. (Instead: "Systematically late for the first lesson!" - "Petya, come to the lesson in time") To achieve a result from another person, including a student, it is important to formulate what you want from it, and not what is not Want to get from him.
4. Method of advance. Any quality you want to develop, strengthen in the student - is advanced to him. (Instead: "Inattentively listened to the lesson" - "Vova! You are able to listen carefully at the lesson" or "Petya! You are able to come on time"
5. Method of permission, permission. The wording begins with the words: "You can ..." For example: Sasha! You can learn well! " Or "I am glad when you come on time ..."
6.Method of accurate description of behavior (instead of a description of the student's personality). Specification to a separate situation instead of generalization of quality or behavior for the future time.
7.Method comparison of the student with himself, with its result in the past, instead of comparing it with other students or with the required standard "Today you were attentive than yesterday"
"This week I got up just once," I thank for attentive work at the lesson. "
8. The method of talking about yourself and your feelings, instead of talking about other appeal to your feelings. Instead of describing other people. For example: "Dear Anna Pavlovna! I am concerned about the marks of your son in physics. Please come on the 14th to 17-00 to discuss the question. "
9. Method good wishes "I wish the best mark in the next lesson!" I hope for the same excellent work in the next lesson (in the next trimester, in the next school year)! "
10. The method of analysis and determination of the purpose of the appeal - especially to parents - how, why, for what purpose, in what form. When the record is recorded, it is important to determine exactly what is the purpose of the recording, what result you want to achieve from the student through this entry, and relate the record and the estimated result. This is especially important when communicating with parents - a very accurate wording is important, so that there may not arise different understanding of what they want from the parents of the teacher. The record in the diary should not be a pedagogical rus, which you need to solve my parents in order to understand what kind of help wants the teacher from them. She must give parents clearly clearly understand that they are expected.
School Diary Requirements
N.V. Lushpayev
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Deputy Director for Educational Works of School No. 402, Moscow
The diary is the main document of the student at the time until he studies. Its maintenance and filling is governed by certain rules that must be respected by all participants in the educational process.
The child becomes the child, the more resourcefulness he exists in order to hide negative school news from his parents and facts. Most students do not want to demonstrate their unsatisfactory assessments to parents, to report them to the new call in educational institution Or mention the number of homework. According to the diary in the most responsible moment "forgetting", "leaning a sick classmate", "is lost", "flutters", etc. To prevent such "random" troubles and increase parental control, an electronic diary system is additionally introduced in the modern Russian school. . However, without traditional diaries, so far it is still impossible to do.
The diary of the student is:
- the magazine in which the student's estimates are recorded;
- student performance indicator;
- tool for appeals Schools for parents.
I pay attention to: not "communications with parents", namely, "school appeals to parents."
Let me leave some meaninglessness of such one-sided communication, but it is curious that the instruction regulates even the text of the records that the teacher can do.
Do you communicate with this approach?
The modern printing industry turns the diary into a fashionable school accessory, offering a choice of diaries of different formats, with colorful covers (lacquered, embossed foil, matte, laminated), with colored bells containing various reference materials, maps, etc.
A bright decoration distracts the student, he forgets that the diary remains the main document of the schoolchildren, and its maintenance and filling is governed by certain rules. Otherwise, the diary becomes formal, not interesting even for "good" and "excellent students" and not necessary for parents the subject.
Requirements for maintaining a diary with students, subject teachers, class managers, school administration and parents only are fixed by a local act educational institution (Regulations on the maintenance of a diary). Neither in the Law of the Russian Federation "On Education", nor in other regulatory acts regulating the activities of educational institutions are not mentioned about the duties of the student to conduct a school diary.
What should a student know about diary
The student periodically needs to be reminded that the diary is his school document, which can be judged by the adjacent and consciousness level, and that it should fill it in strict accordance with the instructions set out in it and in the Regulations on the maintenance of a diary.
Position
On uniform requirements for maintaining and filling out a student diary
The diary is a student school document. Responsibility for its mandatory and neat maintenance is carried by the student himself.
- All entries in the diary student makes blue ink.
- The student fills the face of the cover; writes the names of objects and surnames, the names and patronymic of teachers; leads a schedule of lessons, optional classes and, as necessary, extracurricular and out-of-school events; Indicates month and number. Unauthorized entries and drawings in the diary are not allowed.
- The student records homework daily for independent work in the counts of the day to which they are set; During the school holidays, the plan for extracurricular and out-of-school events is issued.
- The student places a diary at the request of subject teachers and a class teacher.
- The teacher, assessing the response of the student, sets the mark to the classroom and at the same time enters it into the diary and assures his signature.
- The class manager weekly monitors the fulfillment of the requirements for maintaining a diary, the presence of marks in the diary received by students during the week, and notes the number of desemination and missed classes. At the end of the diary, the class teacher issues final information about the performance and attendance of the student and assures them with his signature in specially designated graphs.
- Entries of the work performed by the student in the period of work practices are carried out by persons responsible for organizing these works.
- For notes of teachers and a class teacher, free graphs or specially dedicated graphs and diary pages are used.
- Parents weekly, as well as at the end of the school fourth (training trimester), the first half of the year are browsed and signed a diary, if necessary, control its maintenance.
- The school administration carries out systematic control over the conduct of students' diaries of 2-11 classes in accordance with these requirements.
The student should be aware of the obligation to present his diary at the request of the school staff.
Respectful attitude to the diary can be formed when conducting various educational events: classroom watches, « round tables"(For example, by themes" Why do you need a diary? "," What is the differences in passport and diary? ").
Job subject teachers with schoolchildren diaries
Recently, teachers often use verbal estimates. They contribute to improving the student's self-esteem and its positive emotional confusion.
Topics of records may be diverse:
- The verbal estimates, praise ("Well done!", "Umnitsa!", "I wonderfully fulfilled the task!", "Very well prepared!", "Excellent!", "Brilliantly!", "Fine!", "I am proud of I have such a student! ").
- Comments.
- Thanks ("declared (expressed) thanks ...", "Thank you for ...", "I express my appreciation ...").
- Invitations ("Dear ________________________! I invite you to the parent meeting on the topic _______________________________________________________, which will be held __________ in the office No. __________. Class leader _____________________").
- Ads.
- Recommendations ("I ask you to pay attention to ...").
- Informing parents about the successes of their children.
- Notice of parents about the upcoming joint activities at school.
- Congratulations on holidays.
- Congratulations on victories at the Olympics, Achievements in Sport.
- Appeals to parents.
If you need to record a remark or appeal to parents, then it is necessary to do this correctly, briefly and clearly, not humiliating the dignity of the student, and without any hints to parents about the poor raising children. Illiteracy, violation of the standards of the literary language in the wording, ineffective, negligent handwriting, violation of the etiquette (tactlessness) - are not allowed for the teacher!
It is important to remember that the same type records and frequent remarks in the diary, especially if it concerns the behavior or unbearable lessons, they are addictive and have no impact on the unfair student. It will be more efficient to invite parents to school, maybe even a special notice.
The teacher must control the recording of his homework according to his subject, paying special attention to weakly speaking and unsuccessful schoolchildren; Regularly set all the grades received by students.
Work of class managers with schoolchildren diaries
The work of class managers with the diaries of students is regulated by their official duties in an educational institution.
Class leader must:
- weekly check the diaries of students of their class;
- monitor the execution of students with the requirements for maintaining a diary;
- control the presence in the diary of all marks received by students during the week;
- celebrate the number of missing lessons per week and the number of desets;
- control: accuracy, literacy of records, correct errors in them; correctly filling the diary; Feedback with parents;
- conscribing to your signature a diary check.
- reflect the activity and effectiveness of the participation of the student in class and school life.
The diversity of the printing of the diaries makes it difficult to check, since not in each of them there are pages for comments, vacation records, a quarter timetable, etc. Therefore, we suggest to acquire the same diaries (by decision of the parent meeting conducted in May or August, or parental asset class), taking into account the general-cool demands.
Schoolboy's diary check by parents
Parents Weekly, as well as at the end of the school fourth (training trimester), the first half of the year and year should browse and sign the diary, if necessary, check the correctness of its maintenance.
The diary filled in accordance with the requirements allows parents: see the successes or failures of their child; control its fees to school; Know about mode training activities, vacation events; And also be aware of school events.
The work of the administration of an educational institution with the diaries of schoolchildren
The school administration carries out systematic control (according to the OPC plan) of students' diaries of 2-11 classes in accordance with the requirements enshrined in the Regulations on Diary Management. In administrative control of the diaries, the presence in them is checked:
- information about class teachers;
- timetables for a quarter lesson (trimester) and on the current week;
- time calls to lessons;
- work schedules, options for elective classes, project activities, etc.;
- homework;
- data on passes and delays for training sessions;
- unethical comments of students and appeals to parents from subject teachers and class teachers;
- current marks that must be set up teacher-subjects, not class managers;
- parental signatures;
- affected marks for written work on the day of their holding.
In addition, the quality and frequency of testing diaries is monitored by a class manager, as well as a culture of conducting and aesthetics of the decoration of the diary of the diary.
According to the results of administrative control, the administrator who conducted a diary check makes a certificate in which the identified violations indicates, formulates comments and provides recommendations to eliminate violations for a certain period of time.
reference
According to the results of administrative verification of students' diaries
Date: _________________ 20 ____
Purpose of verification:control of readiness of students' diaries to the beginning of the school year.
According to the results The audit of the students of students ___ classes was revealed as follows:
| Diary comments | Class | FULL NAME. Class teacher | Families of students |
| Not complied with a unified form of diaries | |||
| Not decorated the title page of the diary | |||
| Not filled page with a list of teachers | |||
| FULL NAME. teachers in class students are written with errors | |||
| Not filled page with call schedule | |||
| The schedule of lessons is not fully written. | |||
| Students of the class for the most part are not recorded in the diary homework | |||
| There is no signature of the class teacher at the end of the school week | |||
| There is no signature of parents at the end of the school week of all or most of the class students | |||
| The worst diaries from aesthetic point of view |
- Spend class hour In order to eliminate shortcomings when making a diary.
- To draw the attention of students and their parents to the following:
- the diary is carried out only with a handle with blue ink (entries with a pencil, handles with ink of other colors or markers are unacceptable);
- records should be taken carefully, picking up, without using a correction tape or liquid;
- you must specify the current month and dates on the pages with the schedule of lessons and homework;
- when recording a home task, do not abuse phrases "in the notebook", "lecture", etc.;
- unacceptably breaking sheets from the diary;
- it should be submitted a diary to the subject teacher during an answer to stamp mark or according to the first requirement of a teacher or any other school employee.
- Weekly check and sign diaries.
- To draw the attention of subject teachers to the fact that the marks in the diaries should be set immediately, comments and appeals to parents to formulate competently and correctly.
- Submit to repeat the diaries of the following students:
______________________________________________________________________________________________
Specified: ___________________ _____________ ___________________
(position) (signature) (Full name)
Evaluation
Parents want to school at school there were no comments, conflicts with teachers and quarrels with students. What to say, the fewer the claims for the child from the school, the quietly the atmosphere in the family. Especially painfully perceive the comments by parents of students of junior classes. Moms and dads are small and still an obedient child idealize him and are waiting for success.
Often, the record in the diary becomes a shock for parents. Basically, this happens in families where the right parents, grandparents motivate the child for excellent studies and a successful future. Or too busy parents occupy a position: do what you want, but to not be the comments - I have no time to do it. Ambolistic parents know that their child is the best, and perceive his failure as their personal defeat.
In order not to react painfully and not exacerbating the injury of the child, you need to understand: what happens in the walls of the school is not happening with you, but with your child. All that mom or dad can do is listen to, teach to negotiate, forgive, defend your opinion. Note in the diary is a wish or screering of a teacher for help. For parents, two extremes are equally erroneous: take the side of the child and take the Teacher's side.
Parents on the side of the child
Schoolchild needs support and interest in parents. It is best to show interest in a trust conversation. It is not necessary at all at every opportunity to intervene in his relationship with the teacher and tell the teacher, what kind of relationship is your child. There is no ideal school, always anything is there - many tasks, a strict teacher, severe physical education, uncomfortable parties, stupid children.
Walking about the offended child, you can change the class, teacher, school, several schools. But it is much more important to teach your chick to overcome difficulties in communication, and here he can not cope. It is at school that the child receives the first experience of conflict and care from the conflict. Try (if you are asked about this) to analyze the situation. Together, think about where you can do or speak out otherwise. Do not criticize the child, say gently and patiently, share your experience.
Note: If you unconditionally take the side of the child, if you believe only him, he can tell you not all the truth. Show that you respect the teacher, never speak about the teacher bad, do not discuss it in the presence of a student. If you think that the child did unfairly and you need to intervene, talk to the teacher without witnesses. Clear the essence of the problem, listen to claims and state your opinion. The right approach: Maintain and protect the child, but to do it alone with the teacher.
Parents on the side of the teacher
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In general, parents must support school. Did you give a child in this school? So, with school rules got acquainted and agree. But if a child knows that in any dispute you support adults, he will not be able to contact you for help. Sometimes there are situations that require parental interference. For example, bullying or injury from other children. A slander on a child when he finds himself in the minority and pumped on him someone else's wrongdoing. Finally, the dispute with the teacher when the word of the child is against the word of the adult. He tells his story, and the teacher declares that everything was different. Do you know whose word will be weighty?
The child should know: where he can not solve the problem, you will speak on his side. Believe him and be happy that in a difficult moment the child has someone to ask for help. In special cases, the child may refuse to talk about the essence of the conflict and simply ask to leave the school. Not always parents must act as a judge and make a decision, but should always help near manwho was in an insoluble situation for him.
How to reconcile two sides
This is a chance for parents - to teach the child a life lesson. In the event that you yourself are able to negotiate, hear others, apologize and forgive. The teacher is humanly wrong. He can just make mistakes like anyone. With him "happen" fatigue and mood. Finally, he just did his job. It is really difficult - thirty not always benevolent adolescents, everyone has a couple of adults who read American psychologists. Believe me, no teacher is interested in continuing the conflict. We all go through life due to the fact that we have friends, and do not make enemies. Show on your example how can I find mutual languageBy giving way in small, win in the main thing.
The word teacher
"Almost 50 years of work - and not a single comment. I always thought: I do not know the parents badly, suddenly they will punish the student. This will configure him against the teacher, he will try less, can get into himself. A teacher, as a doctor, should not harm. Council to all teachers: Never miss the opportunity to praise and encourage the student - both in a personal conversation, and in the classroom, and at the meeting, even for small successes. " (Alla Alekseevna, 70 years old french)
"Just today I wrote a couple of comments. "Not listened by the teacher," "refused to write in the lesson." I hope my parents honor the diary. All children are hard after summer holidaysbut in the third grade can not be capricious as in kindergarten. In the class, many kids, I see how difficult it is and how they try. I made a remark speech several times. And if I do not write it to the diary, then the violator will win. In addition, I spent on one student the time that belongs to all: interrupted the lesson, took the diary, made a record. Personally, it is not very pleasant to me, but justice is manifested. We teach children that good behavior should be encouraged, but for bad punishment. " (Valentina Aleksandrovna, 34 years old, Junior Teacher)
"What parents? It was not enough for them to intervene in the educational process. We ourselves will fine. We have one indicator - solid knowledge. Parents want the child to enroll in the university, it means to learn, work, just plow. There is a goal, and I help it to achieve. " (Nina Anatolyevna, 60 years old, mathematics)
"Yes, noted. Made a record "yawn at the lesson" student of the 7th grade. Mathematics is a serious subject, requires attention and mental effort. Here you have to think. If a paradise of half a lesson fights with a dream, he exists disrespect for me and disregard for the subject. Let his parents sleep him in time. It is my right. The guy interfered with us to work with the class, and I stuck it before classmates. " (Alexey Vladimirovich, 38 years old, mathematics)
"Sometimes it is inevitable. Now at school there is no assessment on behavior, the characteristic is canceled. You can not put in the angle and drive out of the lesson. Diary - the last chance of the teacher. Already in the middle classes, the child knows which item is needed, and which is not useful. With the consent of the parents, he misses the "unnecessary" subjects, distracting other students. In such cases, the teacher needs help parents. And this is not a request, this requirement: respect classmates, do not bother them to learn, do not disturb the discipline. Although, in my opinion, the idleness in the lesson when everyone works, it is necessary to equate for the absenteeism. " (Svetlana Mikhailovna, 45 years, Ukrainian)
History of parents
"We were in horror when Artem brought" did not try. " Rugali, demanded everything to perform, in general, pressed. Very wanted to study well. And a month later it turned out that he could not be beautifully writing down wands, as in the letter "M". I would like the remark to be not just a comment, but a recommendation for parents - to pay attention and how to help the child. " (Tanya, 32 years old, son Nikita, 7 years old)
"We all learn from eyewitnesses when we take Sasha to school. She is active and moving girl. One day, the children were jumping in class, and the teacher punished everyone, put at the board. Sasha asked not to say dad, but awful in the bag do not hide. Dad spent a conversation. I explained why at school it is necessary to behave decently and respect the work of the teacher, it seems, after that, she changed with the attitude towards studying. There was no more complaints. " (Lydia, 35 years old, Sasha's son, 8 years old)
"Tired of these comments. I try to figure out, but if there is always a complaint about the behavior, then he is not to blame for Denis. Someone first started, they threw a piece of paper in him, took the notebook ... I read and sign, and what to do? I think bad behavior is a form of protest or protection. Perhaps the teacher does not respect the disciples. There was a case when the teacher accused the Son that he replaced his version of the control. Notebook broke, I called me to school. When they figured out, it turned out that on the day the check he was sick, work wrote separately from class, and the teacher put a notebook into a shared stack. For three years, she does not miss the opportunity to remember: "This mother always protects his son." And forgetting that she was inseparable, and sometimes no one, besides mom, will not protect the child. " (Elena, 35 years old, son Denis, 15 years old)
"Small diary has not been shown for a year. He believes that adult. Basically comments because of the clothes. If wearing a shape, it tries to decorate yourself - a belt with a flower, a tie, a bright hairpin. As a man, I think this is normal - it is important for a girl to realize your individuality and attractiveness. How dad will say that these are little things amid the fact that children choose a specialization, as we have - humanitarian, and get permission to do not care on mathematics and physics ... "(Andrey, 40 years old, Natasha, 14 years old)
"I easily react. I call the teacher, I say, thank you, we talked, they died, but what to do? This is a boy, he is so frisky. Previously, it did not listen at all, and only now, your efforts, thank you so much, he is experiencing that you were upset ... And everyone is happy. The teacher knows that he was heard. And for me the main thing so that the child is fluent in developing "(Tatyana, 35 years old, Sasha, 11 years old)